| Research reports that two out of four young | | | | have the bones of an 80 year old woman. The |
| people have unhealthy ideas about eating, dieting | | | | condition is not reversible. Ultimately, |
| and weight. With the alarming increase of eating | | | | approximately, 6% of people with anorexia and |
| disorders, dieting, and obesity among children as | | | | 1% with bulimia will die from their eating disorder. |
| young as 5 and 6, it's crucial these days for | | | | According to Remuda Ranch, an inpatient eating |
| parents to proactively work to promote healthy | | | | disorder treatment center in Arizona, estimates |
| eating and body image in their children. | | | | indicate that 1/3 of American women and 15% of |
| It has been found that in households where mom | | | | men will have an eating disorder or related |
| talks about feeling fat, 81% of their teenage | | | | problem at some time in their lives. Fifty years |
| daughters said they felt fat too. Our girls, | | | | ago, eating disorders were practically unheard of. |
| especially, are being easily confused and influenced | | | | Research suggest a strong genetic component to |
| when it comes to body image development. In a | | | | eating disorders. People who are prone to |
| culture where young people are bombarded with | | | | perfectionism and low self-esteem may be most |
| skinny, glossy, and superficial images, parents can | | | | at risk. |
| be a mirror reflecting understanding, reassurance, | | | | In todays world, the cultural pressures for |
| wisdom, and love that their children can look into | | | | young people to obtain and maintain super-thin |
| with faith and not fear. Many factors influence | | | | bodies are extreme. In this environment, thinness |
| whether an adolescent will develop a positive or | | | | readily becomes a way of dealing with many |
| negative body image. As a parent, you can learn | | | | emotional issues. However, outcome studies have |
| to be supportive the next time your child says, | | | | shown there is much hope for people with eating |
| Mom, I feel fat or Mom, I hate my | | | | disorders. The good news is that approximately |
| life, and be ready with an answer by | | | | 75% of patients with eating disorders do recover. |
| saying, that sounds like an important | | | | How Can Parents Prevent Disordered Eating? |
| feeling, tell me more. | | | | Parents can do much to spare their children a |
| The Slenderizing Beauty Ideal | | | | life-long struggle with eating and weight. One of |
| Everyday 56% of the women in the United | | | | the most important ways is to examine their own |
| States are on diets. We have a | | | | beliefs and prejudices as a parent about weight |
| 30-billion-dollar-a-year diet industry. The historical | | | | and appearance. Parents should communicate |
| view of the ideal female body has changed over | | | | acceptance and respect for themselves and other |
| the years and influenced this dieting America. | | | | people regardless of weight. This will reduce some |
| Although many factors contribute to the changing | | | | of the pressure children may feel to change their |
| body shape of girls, including better nutrition, | | | | bodies. Especially, discourage the idea that a |
| earlier onset of puberty and other societal | | | | particular diet or body size can reliably lead to |
| influences. The fact remains that regardless of | | | | happiness. Do not model or encourage dieting. |
| the reason, the common trend over time points | | | | Accept and talk about the fact that diets |
| to a slenderizing standard of the female ideal. | | | | dont work and the dangers of altering |
| With standards like this, it is no wonder that | | | | ones body through dieting. |
| children are dissatisfied with their bodies. | | | | Tips For Healthy Eating |
| When it came to looks teens are most | | | | In our diet crazed culture, what really is healthy |
| concerned about weight. A Teen People survey | | | | eating? Here are a few tips that will go a long |
| of 1000 teens, showed that 39% worried about | | | | way in feeding your family a balanced mealtime |
| weight. Between 2000 and 2001, cosmetic | | | | experience. For starters, teach your children to |
| surgery on girls 18 and younger had increased by | | | | listen to their body -- eat when youre |
| 22%. | | | | hungry, stop when youre full. Remember |
| Another study reported that after girls viewed | | | | balance means that most of the time you eat |
| pictures of models in fashion magazines: | | | | because you are hungry and use food as fuel for |
| 69% reported that magazine pictures influenced | | | | your body. But, it also means that sometimes you |
| their idea of the perfect body shape and | | | | eat simply when the food appeals to you or when |
| 47% reported wanting to lose weight because of | | | | it is appropriate in a social setting (e.g., popcorn at |
| magazine pictures. | | | | the movies), allowing yourself to eat for |
| This study found that those who were frequent | | | | enjoyment. |
| readers of fashion magazines were 2-3 times | | | | Try to eat different foods everyday, in other |
| more likely than infrequent readers to start dieting | | | | words, create an adventure for your taste buds. |
| to lose weight because of a magazine article. | | | | Aim to inspire your family to eat 3 meals and 1 to |
| What Are Eating Disorders? | | | | 3 snacks a day. The idea that snacking between |
| Is it any wonder, then, that eating disorders | | | | meals is bad is a thing of the past. By teaching |
| affect 7 million women and 1 million men in the | | | | your kids to eat every 2 to 4 hours, they will |
| United States? Eating disorders include anorexia, | | | | prevent their body from getting overly hungry |
| bulimia nervosa and binge-eating disorder. People | | | | which could set them up to overeat later. Plus, |
| with anorexia starve themselves to dangerously | | | | the body uses the fuel from food very efficiently |
| thin levels, at least 15% below their appropriate | | | | when smaller amounts of food is eaten more |
| weight. People with bulimia binge uncontrollably on | | | | frequently throughout the day. |
| large amounts of food--sometimes thousands of | | | | The bottom line: eat normally, exercise |
| calories at a time--and then purge the calories out | | | | moderately, and let your body weigh what it |
| of their bodies through vomiting, starving, | | | | wants. Yes, it will take courage and perseverance, |
| excessive exercise, laxatives, or other methods. | | | | but the rewards of knowing you are teaching |
| People with binge-eating disorder eat | | | | your family how to eat for pleasure is a true |
| uncontrollably, but they do not purge the calories. | | | | legacy to leave. |
| Eating Disorders Not Otherwise Specified (or | | | | Resources |
| EDNOS) is a new classification of disordered eating | | | | BOOKS |
| that falls between anorexia, binge eating and | | | | DeVillera, Julia. GirlWise. Roseville, California: Prima |
| bulimia. Unfortunately, since this type of 'sub-clinical' | | | | Publishing; 2002. |
| disorder is often not life-threatening, there | | | | Gaesser, Glenn. Big Fat Lies: The Truth about |
| appears to be little research available on the topic. | | | | Your Weight and Your Health. New York: |
| One of the goals at FINDINGbalance.com, the first | | | | Ballantine; 1996. |
| national organization dedicated to helping those | | | | Hersh. Sharon A. Mom, I feel fat! |
| who struggle with ENDOS, is to begin collecting | | | | Colorado Springs, Colorado: WaterBrook Press; |
| new information through input from their website | | | | 2001. |
| visitors and other existing sources. Visit the | | | | Hutchinson, Marcia. 200 Ways to Love the Body |
| website to take the Weird Eater | | | | You Have. CA: Crossing Press; 1999. |
| quiz and take a closer look at how dieting habits | | | | Jacobs-Brumberg, Joan. The Body Project: An |
| can lead to disordered eating. | | | | Intimate History of American Girls. NewYork: |
| Anorexia Warning Signs for Adolescents & | | | | Random House; 1997. |
| Adults: | | | | Jantz, Gregory L. Hope, Help & Healing for |
| Loss of menstrual period | | | | Eating Disorders. Colorado Springs, Colorado: |
| Dieting obsessively when not overweight | | | | Waterbrook Press; 2002. |
| Claiming to feel "fat" when overweight is | | | | Omichinski, Linda. Staying off the Diet Roller |
| not a reality | | | | Coaster: Advicezone.com; 2000. |
| Preoccupation with food, calories, nutrition, | | | | Rhodes, Constance. Life Inside the Thin Cage. |
| and/or cooking | | | | Colorado Springs. Colorado: Waterbrook Press; |
| Denial of hunger | | | | 2003. |
| Excessive exercising, being overly active | | | | Quart, Alissa. Branded: The Buying and Selling of |
| Frequent weighing | | | | Teenagers. Cambridge, Massachusetts: Perseus |
| Strange food-related behaviors | | | | Books Group; 2003. |
| Episodes of binge-eating | | | | Tribole, Evelyn. Intuitive Eating: A Recovery Book |
| 15% or more below normal body weight | | | | for the Chronic Dieter. New York: St. Martin's |
| rapid weight loss | | | | Press; 1995. |
| Depression | | | | WEBSITES AND PROGRAMS |
| Slowness of thought/memory difficulties | | | | HUGS |
| Hair loss | | | | HUGS for Better Health website features |
| * In children any combination of these symptoms | | | | resources on how to build a non-diet lifestyle. |
| should be considered serious and an immediate | | | | F.I.T Decisions |
| evaluation by an eating disorder professional or | | | | F.I.T (Future Identity of Teens) is a weekend |
| physician is recommended. | | | | conference for teenage girls to teach teens how |
| Source: | | | | to live healthful, balanced lives. Nationally-known |
| Bulimia Warning Signs: | | | | speakers, drama skits, fashion shows, kick boxing, |
| Excessive concern about weight | | | | snacks, and give-aways are part of the all day |
| Strict dieting followed by eating binges | | | | workshop. [ |
| Frequent overeating, especially when | | | | [ |
| distressed | | | | The US Department of Health and Human |
| Bingeing on high calorie, sweet foods | | | | Services has sponsored, Girl Power!, a national |
| Use of laxatives, diuretics, strict dieting, | | | | public education campaign sponsored designed to |
| vigorous exercise, and/or vomiting to control | | | | provide positive messages, accurate health |
| weight | | | | information, and support for 9- to 13-year-old girls. |
| Leaving for the bathroom after meals | | | | The website includes statistics, research, materials |
| Being secretive about binges or vomiting | | | | and information for both adolescents and adults. A |
| Planning binges or opportunities to binge | | | | free Girl Power! Kit can be ordered via the |
| Feeling out of control | | | | website. |
| Depressive moods | | | | [ |
| Source: | | | | This site, the National Womens Health |
| EDNOS Warning Signs: | | | | Information Center, is a project of the US |
| You're always on a diet, always coming | | | | Department of Health and Human Services, Office |
| off a diet, or always getting ready to go on one | | | | on Womens Health. Navigate to |
| again (chronic dieting). | | | | Body Image section of the website |
| You categorize foods as 'safe' and 'off | | | | and you will find the Body Wise |
| limits', but weigh within normal ranges and are not | | | | handbook and additional information, educational |
| participating in bulimia. | | | | material and additional resources for parents and a |
| You eliminate entire food groups from | | | | variety of professions. D. Burgard, PhD |
| your diet. | | | | Videos and workshops that teach young people |
| You are obsessed with exercising but eat | | | | how to develop a positive body image and have a |
| fairly regularly. | | | | healthy relationship with food. A new video (2002) |
| You binge and/or purge occasionally, but | | | | Body Talk 2: It's a New Language, is targeted at |
| not more than a few times a month. | | | | tweens (ages 8-11). |
| You skip social occasions because you | | | | Gurze Books which include tapes and resources |
| feel fat, or because you are afraid of what's | | | | on disordered eating and related topics on body |
| being served, yet your weight is normal. | | | | image and obesity. |
| You believe that everyone is as focused | | | | The Healthy Weight Network features a journal |
| on your weight as you are. | | | | and Francis Berg's books, Children and Teens |
| You refuse to eat regular meals, choosing | | | | Afraid to Eat and other practical resources for |
| instead to 'nibble' throughout the day on small | | | | educators and health professionals. |
| portions of food (which usually leads to bingeing). | | | | The Victorian Department of Human Services |
| Source: | | | | website has many resources including a summary |
| How Common Are Eating Disorders? | | | | of body image programs as well as a review of |
| Eating disorders are serious illnesses. The | | | | the research evaluating these programs. In |
| malnourishment of both anorexia and bulimia | | | | addition, you will find a free Resource Planning Kit: |
| affects the body rapidly and can lead to | | | | Shape: Body Image Program Planning |
| hypoglycemia, pancreatitis, enlargement of the | | | | Guide. |
| heart, heart attacks, congestive heart failure, | | | | Provides many programs, books and materials |
| permanent brain shrinkage with loss of memory | | | | and references (two items offered are listed |
| and IQ, infertility, and osteoporosis. It is not | | | | below). |
| uncommon for a teenage girl with anorexia to | | | | |